Saturday, 2 February 2013

:: Kasih Sayang ::



Pada suatu pagi di satu sekolah menengah, ada seorang pelajar bertanya pada seorang guru yang sedang mengajar. Ketika itu, guru tersebut sedang menyentuh mengenai kasih dan sayang secara am. .


Dialog di antara pelajar dan guru tersebut berbunyi begini:- 


Pelajar :
Cikgu, macam mana kita nak pilih seseorang yang terbaik sebagai orang paling kita sayang? Macam mana juga kasih sayang itu nak berkekalan?



Cikgu : 
Oh, awak nak tahu ke?.Emmm...baik­lah,sekarang kamu buat apa yang saya suruh. Ikut je ye...mungkin kamu akan dapat apa jawapannya.

Pelajar : 
Baiklah. . apa yang harus saya buat ?

Cikgu : 
Kamu pergi ke padang sekolah yang berada di luar kelas
sekarang juga. Kamu berjalan di atas rumput di situ dan sambil memandang rumput di depan kamu, pilih mana yang PALING cantik
tanpa menoleh ke belakang lagi walaupun sekali. Dan kamu petiklah rumput yang PALING cantik yang berada di depan kamu tersebut dan selepas itu bawa balik ke kelas. 

Pelajar : 
Ok. Saya pergi sekarang dan buat apa yang cikgu suruh. 

Apabila pelajar tersebut balik semula ke kelas, tiada pun rumput yang berada di tangannya. Maka cikgu pun bertanya kepada pelajar tersebut. 

Cikgu : 
Mana rumput yang cikgu suruh petik? 

Pelajar : 
Oh, tadi saya berjalan di atas rumput dan sambil memandang rumput yang berada di situ, saya carilah rumput yang paling cantik. Memang ada banyak yang cantik tapi cikgu kata petik yang paling cantik maka saya pun terus berjalan ke depan sambil mencari yang paling cantik tanpa menoleh ke belakang lagi. Tapi sampai di penghujung padang , saya tak jumpa pun yang paling cantik. Mungkin ada di antara yang di belakang saya sebelum itu tapi dah cikgu cakap tak boleh menoleh ke belakang semula, jadi tiadalah rumput yang saya boleh petik. 

Cikgu : 
Ya, itulah jawapannya. Maknanya, apabila kita telah berjumpa dengan seseorang yang kita sayang, janganlah kita hendak mencari lagi yang lebih baik daripada itu. Kita patut hargai orang yang berada di depan kita sebaik-baiknya.­ Janganlah kita menoleh ke belakang lagi kerana yang berlaku tetap dah berlaku. Dan semoga yang berlalu tidak lagi berulang. Jika kita berselisih faham dengan orang yang kita sayang itu, kita
boleh perbetulkan keadaan dan cuba teruskan perhubungan tersebut walaupun banyak perkara yang menggugat perhubungan tersebut. Dan
ingatlah orang yang kita sayang itulah kita jumpa paling cantik dan paling baik pada MULAnya walaupun nak ikutkan banyak lagi yang cantik dan baik seperti rumput tadi.

Maka,
sayangilah orang yang berada di depan kita dengan tulus dan ikhlas..

Friday, 1 February 2013

Yang Lalu Biarlah Berlalu


Waktu pun terhenti,
 hatiku mencari
Mataku terpukau pada satu tatapan

Membeku langkahku,
 tergetar hatiku
Terperangkap aku dalam keindahanmu

Kau dekati aku, 
kau sentuh tubuhku
Kau buat diriku, 
terhanyut dalam peluk mu

Sejenak ku sadar, kau bukan cintaku

Lepas pelukanmu dariku, 
buang jauh perasaanmu
Semua tentang kita ingin aku lupakan

Yang lalu biarlah berlalu,
 jangan lagi ini terjadi
Biarlah kita jalani 
cinta di jalan yg berbeda

Yang telah terjadi, 
sudahlah lupakan
Jika terus kau kenang,
 hanya membuat luka di hati

Sadarilah aku bukan cintamu
Sadarilah aku bukan milikmu

Yang lalu biarlah berlalu,
 jangan lagi ini terjadi
Karena ini hanya kan semakin menghancurkan
Semakin menyakitkan,
 semakin mematahkan hatimu

Wednesday, 16 January 2013

:: it's all about him ::



I realize. .

Unconditional love
it's not about having him beside me 24/7
because he’s always on my mind. .

it's not about where I am
it’s about who I am with. . 

it’s not about how we live the day
it’s about with whom u’re living it with. .

it’s not about what u have in life
it’s about who u’re sharing it with. .

his happiness comes first before yours
his smile is all you need to kick off the day
his hug is your sanctuary
his kiss is your morphine
his thoughts is your coffee
his laugh is your weeds

unconditional love..
It’s all about him :) .

Wednesday, 9 January 2013


~~> I've learned that we don't have to change friends,If we understand that friends change.

~~> I've learned that something that you do in an instant, can give you heartache for life.

~~> I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be that last time you see them.

~~> I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

~~> I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.

~~> I've learned that my best friend and I , can do anything or nothing and still have a good time.

~~> I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.

~~> I've learned that sometimes when i am angry i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

~~> I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

~~> I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

~~> I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

~~> I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

~~> I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secrect, it may change your life forever.

~~> I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life, are taken from you too soon.

~~> I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.

~~> I've learned that no matter how much i care, some people just dont care back.

~~> I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.

~~> I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have that counts.

~~> I've learned that you can keep going, long after you.

Monday, 24 December 2012

::: H E A R T B R E A K :::

Everyone at some point in their life is going to experience it. 

And, u know what ? 
it's probably one of the most painful things a person has to go through. 

I'm not going to lie ! 
When u get ur heart broken, 
it feels like it shattered into a million pieces. 
It's like that person u were head over heels for stomped mercilessly on ur heart. 
It feels like ur heart is being shredded to pieces, 
cut up, 
and thrown in the trash, 
left to rot. 

It hurts a lot, 
emotionally and physically. 
Getting heart broken actually makes ur heart physically hurt. 
U cry and cry and wish it wasn't like this. 
U wish it was just a temporary nightmare.

But, the sad truth ? 
It's not ! 
It's reality ! 

And u're going to just have to accept it, the pain and all. .

Saturday, 8 December 2012

The truth is. . .

I tell myself the things that I really need to hear at a time like this. .

"You're gone because it's the best for both of us. You weren't happy, and now you've gone to find someone that can make you happy. Which is good, because that's what I want. you need to be happy and it makes me happy knowing you are happy. I tell myself we weren't right for each other and there's one right person out there for me, and it wasn't you, so that's why we didn't last. I tell myself that I won't look back on our relationship with regret, because I believe in the saying that it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."

But I'm just lying to myself.

No one will ever love you the same way I did. Being apart isn't good for either of us. You used to be happy, and I believe we could go back to the time we were happy, if we could just work through it. I believe with all my heart we were right for each other... and I will always live with that regret allowing you to walk out of my life instead of just giving up after countless times of you throwing me back to the ground after I dropped my pride time after time. I wish I could say that I never did love you because it would be easier. then I wouldn't have to deal with crushing heartache. I wish I could truly believe that saying either way; I don't believe it was better to have loved and lost, but the time I spent loving you was the greatest time of my life.

I don't know if telling myself these lies are helping or not. It's not working to force myself to believe it, because with every statement I tell myself, the pain worsens to know it's not true and yet I continue to go in this continuous cycle, happy to stay in it because the only thing I can think of is that you loved me enough to pull me out of it. This is the only lie I have told myself that I have chosen to believe. I think that's why it hurts the most. .

Although I tell myself many lies to try to get over you, here's the truth:

"I will always love you and that's all I'm really certain of anymore."

Monday, 3 December 2012

iF onLy u know . . . .

I didn’t plan on FALLiNG iN LOVE with you, 
 and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. .
But once we met, 
 it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. .
We fell in love
 despite our differences, 
and once we did, 
 something rare and beautiful was created. . 
For me
 love like that has happened only once
and that’s why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. .
 I’ll never forget a single moment of it. .