::: Our Journey :::

We're so much stronger than we think we are. 

 We got disappointed, 

we got hurt,

 and felt like we lost everything that ever meant something in our world.

But life goes on.

 The sun will always rise again. 

Some people come and go,

 some are meant to stay for a life time.
We got to have faith.

 It'll all get better in time, 

the pain will fade,

 and we'll love, live, laugh again. 

I promise you. 

 But until then, it's up to you. .

You can either focus on what's tearing you apart, 

or on what's holding you together. .

H O W ???

Sometimes I think of everything that has happened so far.

I start to wonder why I am here and not there. 

I wonder why I've been at this place, 

at this time, 

with the person I was and met you. 

How I thought we were meant to be. 

How you told me you'd be different, 

how you told me I gave you hope when you thought you lost it all, 

how you told me you loved me. 

I remember how I believed in every word you said, 

how I dreamt about our future, 

how I promised you to always be around, 

how much I loved you. 

And I meant it. 

I still do. 

And I will never forget, 

that's for sure. 

But seems like you forgot it all. 

You told me to move on, 

everyone's telling me that.

And I want to, 

I REALLY DO !

But, 

please tell me, 

how do you move on ?

how do you forget someone who gave you so much to remember?

:: C A P i T A L ::

A – Accept

Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve made even if you have difficulty in understanding their beliefs, motives or actions.

B – Break Away

Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish in your life.

C – Create

Create a family of friends with whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows and happiness.

D – Decide

Decide that you’ll be successful and happy come what may and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E – Explore

Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.

F – Forgive

Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G – Grow

Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H – Hope

Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I – Ignore

Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds for you.

J – Journey

Journey to new worlds, new possibilities by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day and you’ll grow.

K – Know

Know that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L – Love

Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’s room for endless happiness.

M – Manage

Manage your time and your expenses wisely and you’ll suffer less stress and worry. Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N – Notice

Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak or thode who suffer. Offer your assistance when possible and always share your kindness and understanding.

O – Open

Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times there’s still much to be thankful for.

P – Play

Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q – Question

Ask many questions because you’re here to learn.

R – Relax

Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S – Share

Share your talent, skills, knowledge and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T – Try

Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U – Use

Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.

V – Value

Value the friends and family members who have supported and encouraged you and be there for them as well.

W – Work

Work hard every day to be the best person you can be but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X – X-Ray

Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y – Yield

Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.

Z – Zoom

Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams and a brighter tomorrow.

This is Love

I think it’s amazing when you begin to find yourself loving someone for who they are. 

When you can meet a stranger and know nothing about them and suddenly find those little things about them that you can’t help but fall for. 

Though you still notice those physical attributes that caused you to be first attracted to them, 

you find out how their beauty within is far superior and it’s reason why you stay. 

It’s easy to say you fall in love with their personality, 

but it’s so much than that. 

It’s their subtle quirks that only belong to them, 

that you always notice and just fall in love with because it’s what makes them so unique. 

How the most random things they do can make you smile instantaneously. 

And the smallest things that we take for granted such as a smile, 

a laugh, or how they act in certain situation becomes something you look forward to seeing and hearing everyday. 

And it’s incredible how both you are able to break down these barriers and shields the other has put up so easily, 

and yet feel so comfortable being so vulnerable with another person. 

In the end, you fall for everything about someone. 

You fall in love with the hidden scars they have that made them who they are. 

You fall in love with their tendencies that you’re almost certain they don’t even know they have. 

You fall in love with their heart. 

You fall in love with who they are. .

i WiLL ALWAYS LOVE U

I will not always be the definition of a

 "PERFECT GiRLFRiEND."

Some days I will mess up. 

I'll get jealous. 

I’ll probably never listen to you, 

and I’ll never do anything right. 

Absentmindedly maybe I’ll even bring up buried fears and doubts. 

And sometimes I may even break your heart a little bit.

But I will also always be your shoulder to lean on. 

I will support you and be honest with you.  

I'll talk to you about my own fears and worries, 

I will let you in to my heart and my mind. 

I will let you be mean when you are upset. 

I will listen when you need someone to listen, 

and push you when you need to be pushed. 

I will never be perfect, 

but I will always try to be what you need. 

I’ll be the best me that I can offer to you because that’s what you deserve. 

I’ll be there for you and be by your side through everything, 

I won’t give up even when things get tough. 

i ♥ u !

LOVE is BLiND

You're blinded by LOVE

when you can't differentiate

gender, age, race, nationality, religion, culture and language. .

Sometimes, 

you're so blind, 

you can't see the bad in that person, 

no matter how much that person had hurt you 

or broke your heart for countless times, 

you'll still forgive them in the end. .

In fact, 

you can only see the good in that person and trust them completely, 

like a FOOL. 

So you would follow your heart 

and choose to stay even when things get hard on you, 

because you believe in happing endings. 

You won't listen to what others were telling you, 

you're very determined to prove them wrong 

because you had hope for the future. 

They say love is blind,  

but actually love is not blind

                               it sees but it never mind. .

::: J o D o H :::

Jika kamu memancing ikan
Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail
Hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu
Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula kedalam air begitu sahaja
Kerana ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kail kamu dan mungkin ia akan menderita MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup. .
 

Begitulah juga setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang
Setelah dia mulai MENYAYANGI kamu
Hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya
Janganlah sesekali kamu terus MENINGGALKANNYA begitu sahaja
Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu
Dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia masih mengingati kamu. .

Jika kamu MENADAH air, biarlah berpada
Jangan terlalu berharap pada takungannya dan menganggap ia begitu teguh
Cukuplah sekadar untuk KEPERLUANMU sahaja
Kerana apabila ia mulai RETAK
Tidak sukar untuk kamu menampal dan memperbaikinya semula
Dan bukannya terus dibuang begitu sahaja. .

Begitulah juga jika kamu sedang memiliki seseorang

TERIMALAH dia seadanya
Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan mengganggapkan dia begitu istimewa
Anggaplah dia manusia biasa
Kerana apabila dia melakukan KESILAPAN, 

tidaklah sukar untuk kamu MEMAAFKANNYA dan MEMBOLEHKAN hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhir hayat
Dan bukannya MENGHUKUMNYA dan MENINGGALKAN dia begitu sahaja kerana kamu merasa terlalu kecewa dengan sikapnya
Lalu semuanya akan menjadi TERHENTI begitu sahaja . .
 

Jika kamu MEMILIKI sepinggan nasi
Yang kamu pasti baik untuk diri kamu
Yang MENGENYANGKAN dan BERKHASIAT
Mengapa kamu berlengah lagi?
Cuba mencari makanan yang lain?
Kerana terlalu ingin mengejar KELAZATAN
Kelak, nasi itu akan BASI dan kamu sudah tidak boleh menikmatinya lagi
Kamu akan MENYESAL. .
 

Begitulah juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang INSAN
Yang kamu pasti boleh membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu
MENYAYANGIMU . . 

MENGASIHIMU . . 

dan MENCINTAIMU . .
Mengapa kamu berlengah lagi? 

Dengan cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain?
Terlalu mengejar KESEMPURNAAN?
Kelak, dia akan BERJAUH HATI 

dan kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain
Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL dan tidak ada gunanya lagi
Oleh itu janganlah kita terlalu mengejar KESEMPURNAAN
Kerana ia bukanlah faktor utama KEBAHAGIAAN yang sempurna,
Sedangkan jika kita boleh memaafkan KESILAPAN orang yang kita sayang
Dan akur dengan KELEMAHANNYA sebagai manusia biasa serta BERSYUKUR dengan apa yang kita sudah MILIKI
Kita akan BAHAGIA, BAHAGIA dan terus BAHAGIA . .

itu lebih BERMAKNA !

WHAT WOMEN WANT

A girl's needs are so simple. .

She just needs you to pay attention, 

because that attention reassures her you're still interested. 

She needs you to put in some effort, 

because that effort reassures her she ain't the only one who's trying. 

She needs you to make time for her, 

because that time reassures her you still want her to be a part of your life. 

She needs your loyalty, 

because that loyalty reassures her she's committing to the right person. 

Lastly, 

she needs your honesty, 

because your honesty reassures her she can trust you. 

and it's sad how some guys can't even get that done. . .

:: That Feeling ::

In life we encounter obstacles, 

something will always be coming our way. 

While we have our brief moments of happiness and laughter, 

there will always be sadness and sorrow. 

At times we don’t feel like doing anything at all. 

We get distracted and put a pause on our mission. 

Through this adventure, 

through this journey, 

we meet people that make us happy, 

and brightens our day. 

Knowing that these moments won’t last long, 

we make the best of it. 

Overcoming an obstacle, 

We feel confused and don’t know what to do. 

But God always has a plan for us 

even when it doesn’t make sense 

and we don’t understand ourselves. 

That moment when you feel everything is slipping away, 

you will always find yourself a reason to continue. 

In the end, 

everything will be alright, 

because if it’s not, 

it’s not the end. 

Tomorrow is a new day. .